I'm Back Bitches!!

III''MMM BBBAACCKK!! Did you miss me? course you did!! It's been about 4 or 5 months..I took a minute to "find myself" , did some soul searching and now I'm ready to unleash the foolishness that is my life..I guess your wondering "well, what the hell did you discover?" and I'm glad you asked..First things First, it was once said "when people show you who they are BELIEVE THEM". I guess I had to find out the hard way. I recently lost over 100 lbs and I am so amazed at how the people in my life have shunned me rather than celebrate my success. Even some in my family have been acting funny. They have confused my new found confidence with conceit. They have accused me of getting "brand new" and "ego tripping". I'm like: WELL DAMN! Excuse the hell outta me for feeling good. I almost felt bad for being happy. Til I realized : I WILL NOT LIVE MY LIFE BASED ON THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS. No matter who they are. I cared way 2 much about what others thought of me. I am happy to say that 2day I really could give 2fucks lol..It's ok for me to think its all about me. Wait..Let me resend the Memo..TO: All my haters From: Me SUBJECT: *Kiss my ass*

Dear Haters,
FUCK YOU!

Sincerely,
ME

**Question of the Day**

There are some things that occur that can change your life as you know it. Some things are unexpected but others you are already aware of. For those life altering changes that we know are ahead, How do you prepare for them? How do you deal with the reaction from people around you who witness this dramatic change?

***Question of the Day***

Someone you know clearly needs a help. Their health is going down the tubes. The life they live is heading down the path of destruction. Do you stage an intervention? Do you let them self destruct? How do you start off a "you need to get your stuff togther" conversation? Do you think "reality checks" help?

**Question of the Day**

How do you operate in a tense environment at work? You spend 40 plus hours a week at work ( for those of you who have a FT Job LOL) with 3 or more personalities. How do you keep your cool/sanity in a hostile Office?

***Question of the Day***

When does self expression cross the line to Hot Mess?

**Question of the Day**

Your in a realationship with someone and you start to catch feelings for one of there close friends. The friend has made it clear that they are feeling you too. What do you do? Do you act on it? Do you come clean with your partner and tell them what kind of friend they have?

***Question of the day***

Is there a or should there be a age limit for entertainers? Are there certain professions that you should avoid after a certain age?